5/11/2018 5:16:00 PM
盤(pán)點(diǎn)微信聊天中的那些套路
1、When sending a friend request, include your real name and any other identifying information. Remember, everybody's time is precious. If there's something you want, cut right to the chase.
2、Never send an "are you there?" without any follow-up messages. The quicker that you get to the point, the more likely the other person is to reply.
千萬(wàn)不要只發(fā)一句“你在嗎?”就沒(méi)有下文了。你越是開(kāi)門(mén)見(jiàn)山地說(shuō)事情，別人越是能決定是否回復(fù)你“在不在”。
3、Please send texts, not voice messages. It might be easier for you to speak than type, but what about the person on the other end? They may be unable to listen to a 59-second message right now. Also, never send personal information by voice message — that is hard to note down.
4、Emojis, GIFs and memes can save the day when you find yourself in an embarrassing conversation, or words fail you. Also, try adding a tilde ("~") to the end of your messages, it can help soften the tone.
如果越聊越尷尬，或是你說(shuō)錯(cuò)了話(huà)，一定別忘了表情符號(hào)、動(dòng)圖和表情包總是能夠挽救陷入尬聊僵局中的你們。你還可以考慮在消息后加上波浪字符(“~”)，它可以讓你的語(yǔ)氣更加舒緩。
5、Think before you type, and then type quickly. There's nothing worse than seeing the flickering "typing..." indicator for minutes on end, without anything being received.
三思而后行，想好了你想說(shuō)的再迅速打字發(fā)消息。盯著那不斷閃爍的“正在輸入中……”，幾分鐘過(guò)去了卻依然沒(méi)收到消息，沒(méi)什么比這更糾結(jié)。
6、You can always judge a person's mood by the length of their text messages.
你可以通過(guò)文字消息的長(zhǎng)度判斷一個(gè)人的心情。
7、If the person you're talking to says "good night" or "I'm going to take a shower" that's probably not what they're actually going to do, it's just an excuse to stop talking to you.
如果別人告訴你他要去睡覺(jué)或洗澡了，那個(gè)人也許并不是真的要這么做。這也許只是停止這段聊天的說(shuō)辭。
8、Use WeChat to communicate with friends and relatives. Use phone calls for acquaintances and strangers.
9、If someone hesitates for longer than three seconds before saying "yes", they probably really mean "no".
如果一個(gè)人猶豫了超過(guò)三秒才答應(yīng)你“好”，那他很大可能只是禮貌性地表達(dá)“不好”。
10、If you receive these emojisfrom friends who are older, read them literally (as a smile, a wave or a laugh). For the post-'90s generation, however, they could indicate speechlessness.
如果你收到了年長(zhǎng)者的發(fā)來(lái)的這些表情符號(hào)，你可以從字面上解讀它們(就是表示微笑，揮手和大笑的含義)。但如果是九零后之間，這些表情符號(hào)的言外之意約莫是無(wú)語(yǔ)。
發(fā)送好友申請(qǐng)時(shí)，一定要記得加上你的真實(shí)姓名和其它必要的識(shí)別信息哦!每個(gè)人的時(shí)間都是很寶貴的，如果你有什么事情或需要的東西，一定記得：少寒暄，切重點(diǎn)!
2、Never send an "are you there?" without any follow-up messages. The quicker that you get to the point, the more likely the other person is to reply.
千萬(wàn)不要只發(fā)一句“你在嗎?”就沒(méi)有下文了。你越是開(kāi)門(mén)見(jiàn)山地說(shuō)事情，別人越是能決定是否回復(fù)你“在不在”。
3、Please send texts, not voice messages. It might be easier for you to speak than type, but what about the person on the other end? They may be unable to listen to a 59-second message right now. Also, never send personal information by voice message — that is hard to note down.
能發(fā)文字的，盡量別發(fā)語(yǔ)音。于你而言，也許說(shuō)話(huà)比打字容易，但你有沒(méi)有想過(guò)對(duì)面人的感受?他們或許沒(méi)辦法聽(tīng)你的59秒超長(zhǎng)語(yǔ)音。同時(shí)，那些隱私信息千萬(wàn)別通過(guò)語(yǔ)音傳達(dá)——想要記錄下來(lái)可是件麻煩事兒。
4、Emojis, GIFs and memes can save the day when you find yourself in an embarrassing conversation, or words fail you. Also, try adding a tilde ("~") to the end of your messages, it can help soften the tone.
如果越聊越尷尬，或是你說(shuō)錯(cuò)了話(huà)，一定別忘了表情符號(hào)、動(dòng)圖和表情包總是能夠挽救陷入尬聊僵局中的你們。你還可以考慮在消息后加上波浪字符(“~”)，它可以讓你的語(yǔ)氣更加舒緩。
5、Think before you type, and then type quickly. There's nothing worse than seeing the flickering "typing..." indicator for minutes on end, without anything being received.
三思而后行，想好了你想說(shuō)的再迅速打字發(fā)消息。盯著那不斷閃爍的“正在輸入中……”，幾分鐘過(guò)去了卻依然沒(méi)收到消息，沒(méi)什么比這更糾結(jié)。
6、You can always judge a person's mood by the length of their text messages.
你可以通過(guò)文字消息的長(zhǎng)度判斷一個(gè)人的心情。
7、If the person you're talking to says "good night" or "I'm going to take a shower" that's probably not what they're actually going to do, it's just an excuse to stop talking to you.
如果別人告訴你他要去睡覺(jué)或洗澡了，那個(gè)人也許并不是真的要這么做。這也許只是停止這段聊天的說(shuō)辭。
8、Use WeChat to communicate with friends and relatives. Use phone calls for acquaintances and strangers.
親朋好友之間，能用微信說(shuō)的就別用電話(huà)。陌生人或萍水之交間，能用電話(huà)說(shuō)的就別加微信說(shuō)了。
9、If someone hesitates for longer than three seconds before saying "yes", they probably really mean "no".
如果一個(gè)人猶豫了超過(guò)三秒才答應(yīng)你“好”，那他很大可能只是禮貌性地表達(dá)“不好”。
10、If you receive these emojisfrom friends who are older, read them literally (as a smile, a wave or a laugh). For the post-'90s generation, however, they could indicate speechlessness.
如果你收到了年長(zhǎng)者的發(fā)來(lái)的這些表情符號(hào)，你可以從字面上解讀它們(就是表示微笑，揮手和大笑的含義)。但如果是九零后之間，這些表情符號(hào)的言外之意約莫是無(wú)語(yǔ)。